I’ve felt a change brewing in my life, not just physical (although I am at the age for that lovely experience), but emotional and mental and spiritual.
For the past 52 years, I’ve been pushing and pushing myself to do more, be more, accomplish more, and always (always) make the most of my time. But I find I’m craving space and quiet and stillness. Dreaming of it and imagining a life reliant on and responsible for – no one.
It’s become an itch I must scratch, like the sweat trickle down the inside of your helmet. I can’t ignore it any longer. Continue reading “What Do You Want? How Post-its Can Help Start the New Story of Your Life”
The last few months have been a whirlwind of launching Another Good Dog into the world. It’s been beyond my wildest imagination, surprising me again and again.
I’ve done enough TV now that I’m finally getting better at not blinking so much while talking and actually answering the question that was asked (as opposed to rambling on in questionable English while my mind is screaming, “OMG – I’m on TV!”).
I’ve even made peace with the fact that Continue reading “I Am Completely Beside Myself”
Here are the notes I wrote to myself this morning on my phone while waiting in the trailer for my turn on set:
I can do this.
This is not some test or race or desperate attempt to impress.
This is just me. Talking about the dogs I’ve fostered and how if more people fostered dogs – we could save more dogs.
This is a message I know deep in my core. It’s why I wrote the book.
Now, if my nerves could just take a seat and stay out of the way, this should be easy.
Larissa is a really cool person. This is just a conversation with her. I need to forget the cameras and audience and talk with her.
I can do this.
Later that afternoon: Back in the hotel room.
My head is spinning and I really can’t tell you if it went well or not. It went fast.
Getting to the set this morning was more challenging than I anticipated. Continue reading “Cara Goes to Hollywood: The Adventure Continues…”
Every writer loves promoting their books.
I’m deep in the midst of promoting my latest book and, to tell you the truth, this time around is WAY fun. That’s because I’m sharing almost every event with a dog or two.
Dogs make everything better.
My last three books were novels – stories I made up sitting at my laptop on long afternoons and pre-dawn writing jags. I crafted characters and lived their lives- but only in my head.
The main character in my latest book, Another Good Dog: One Family and Fifty Foster Dogs, is much more real…. Me.
So instead of dreaming up my drama, I lived it.
It’s easy to take risks when writing fiction, everyone knows you’re making it up, even if they suspect you’re actually writing about them (but changed the names and distinguishing features).
It’s another thing entirely to take risks while writing memoir. Memoir is nothing if not Continue reading “Lay Your Truth on the Page”
Promoting your writing can sometimes feel like you’re waving a flag in a crowd of deaf and blind people with better things to do.
It feels like that.
It also feels like the physics homework I had back in eleventh grade where I regurgitated all the stuff the teacher told me but I never understood.
I’m doing all the things I’m supposed to do and ever hopeful that this will bring about the desired result. And yet, Continue reading “It’s Not Snake Oil, Really!”
I’ve been working on my latest author newsletter. It’s two months late. (My last one went out in February.)
Here’s what the people-that-know say, “If you want to be a successful author you need to build an email list and communicate with them regularly.”
I get that – personal contact and all. Makes complete sense.
Until I sit down to write the newsletter and then I just feel silly.
It’s all Continue reading “I’m kinda sick of me.”
I always have something to say. (Just ask my husband.)
This is usually true about writing, also. I always have something to write about, but oddly, not today.
Today the distractions have me and my tired-I-didn’t-sleep-so-well mind.
This blog is about writing and the writer’s life. Obviously, there is much that could be said about that, but….
The internet is smothered in writing wisdom. It is everywhere because, well, writers write.
It’s not like horseshoers or knitters or firemen. Continue reading “Writers Gotta Write (about something)”